The R-Word

I’ve never liked the R-word. Retarded. It’s clearly meant to be negative, even if not being directed towards a person.

I’ll admit I’ve used it in the past. Then I grew up and realized it simply sounds impolite and rude. 

Then, lo and behold, I have a child with Ds. I have grown a bit sensitive now; Hannah’s delays and perceptions about her. I’ve heard or read grown adults using the word since I’ve had her and it pierces my heart. You are an educated adult - you really can’t come up with a better word? 

I’ve been having a hard time collecting my thoughts about the word and finally found this brief written piece by another mother that sums up my thoughts very well:

Why the R-Word is not “Just A Word”