Thursday, August 19, 2021

COVID Ruins Everything

We went into this summer optimistic and feeling a little safer. Tim and I are fully vaccinated, infections had gone down. We signed the girls up for Summer Camp - finally some socializing! I was unhappy about the administration taking away any mask mandate, but we were willing to take the risk with summer camp since numbers were down. 

We had started hearing about the Delta variant in July and on a Wednesday, July 14th, Hannah had a really bad cold; stuffy, minor cough, a little snot. A typical Hannah cold. Tim also started getting a sore throat. When the weekend hit, Nora had a barky cough that moved to a wet cough. On Monday I woke up with a raging sore throat. Tim went into what seemed like a normal sinus infection for him. I was sniffly and congested. Then on Thursday, July 22nd I felt like I was hit by a bus of fatigue. I couldn't sit up. This fatigue was like nothing I’d had before and came out of the blue. I was thankfully WFH and thought “Geez, maybe I should get a COVID test?”

I found an Urgent Care with rapid tests. After waiting for 15 minutes after my swab, the doctor on call stood in the corner of the room and immediately asked if I was vaccinated. “Yes?” Her face fell and she tossed her papers in the air with a look of defeat: “I don’t know what to do anymore.” My test was positive. I left in shock then anger and called Tim and my Mom sobbing and angry. We have been doing everything to be a team player this entire pandemic and now we were infected. 

Tim tested hours after me and was also positive - all his symptoms had resided. 

We were quarantined for 10 days after our first symptoms. The next day we got the girls both rapid and PCR tests - both came back negative which baffled us. Was their viral load less b.c they were younger? Had we waited too long to test them? 

Unfortunately, because they tested negative, the girls’ quarantine of 10 days didn’t start until mine was over. The county health dept assumes that they can still catch it from me on my last day of quarantine. Our poor girls were home for 17 days. 



We had to cancel a large friend’s camping trip, a concert night, I had to cancel a Mom’s Night Out. It truly ruined the end of our summer. 

They went back to their summer camp on Monday August 9th. On Tuesday Aug 10th I got a call from Summer Camp that Hannah’s aide had tested positive and to come pick her up and quarantine her for another 10 days. 

I lost my shit. I screamed and cried and was inconsolable for an hour. My child needs socialization and it keeps getting yanked from her. Is this how school was going to go if she can’t wear a mask well? Just a constant stream of exposure quarantines that completely disrupt her education and our work days? (This will be a story for another time)

Hannah showed no signs and thankfully tested negative - this got her out of quarantine in 7 days instead of 10 and she was able to start on the 1st day of school. 

Hannah has been in quarantine for 24 days in the past month. We are tired of being home.



2 comments:

  1. I am so sorry. My brother's family has been in a similar boat - 14 days of quarantining after their exposure to my mom's breakthrough case, and then on day 14, their older daughter developed symptoms and tested positive. Everyone is fine, but they are heading into week 4 of quarantine, and their kids have had to miss the end of all of the summer activities, saying goodbye to their summer camp/program friends, and the 1st week of school. It is TOO MUCH, and that is with the best possible outcome! Sending lots and lots of hugs.

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  2. Oh my goodness. I'm so incredibly sorry you all got sick. I'm so tired of all it all.

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