Monday, March 25, 2019

How To Navigate A Special Needs Encounter

You all know I’m a big fan of Amy Webb/Miggy and her posts and advocacy for those with disabilities. 

Her article on How to Navigate a Special Needs Encounter has been making the rounds again, on USA today even! 

I think it’s very important to read not only as a parent but could also apply to adult encounters. 



Also of note – I keep reading that the term “special needs” is not preferred by those who actually have differing needs - I know, it’s hard to keep up and know what proper language to use. I still use “special needs,” but frankly, Hannah doesn’t have special needs, her needs are just like everyone else, right? 

I found this article super eye-opening - mainly because the author is speaking with her adult peers with disabilities. 

3 Reasons to Say “Disability” instead of “Special Needs.”

Some interesting quotes:

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Disabled people should control the conversation about their disabilities, and the language used about them, not their parents.”

A need isn’t special if other people get to take the same thing for granted.”

“Handi-capable,” “People of all abilities,” “Different abilities,” “Differently abled,” and “special needs” were made up outside of the disabled community, by people without disabilities. 

‘Dis’ = Another Way of Doing and Being

“Disabled” meaning an ability to do or be something in another way.
“Disability” meaning an ability to do or be in another way.

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Interesting to read and important to hear from those who actually have the disabilities! 

Friday, March 22, 2019

Isn't It A Pity?

When you have 15 minutes to spare, this is a great TED Talk about how many attempts to accommodate “special needs” comes out as pity and separation. 

Isn’t It A Pity?

Friday, March 15, 2019

Hannah’s New Care

Hannah has settled in at the new sitter’s home well. 

It’s a bit more regimented and scheduled than Alison’s, but Shannon is trying to establish herself as an Early Learning Center. 


Hannah thankfully adapts very well and seems to enjoy it quite a bit! The bus picks up Hannah for school and drops her back off at their home. Shannon is great at giving me updates and sending photos - look at all of these!

Her first trial day.



Napping in her reading fort. 







Urban Axes

About two weeks ago, we had some teambuilding at work - at Urban Axes. Throw axes. Drink beer. Have fun - it really was!

We each practiced a bit and coaches stood with us to teach us techniques. Well, turns out I’m pretty good - ! I can’t even count how many bullseyes I had - more than five but less than ten? 

The guys were regularly hitting around 24-26 points and I was landing in the low 30s - yeah buddy!

Pretty proud of uncovering my hidden talent! 




It’s Nora's Month!

Nora was recognized with an “I Can...” Award for being a positive peer in her class this week! 

This is a funky panorama of a can to read it - ha!


And even bigger: Seipelt Elementary gives quarterly SOAR Awards nominated by the teachers; students who embody the traits of a Milford Eagle: Safety, Ownership, Attitude, and Respect/Responsibility. 

I received a message on my phone at work - another Mom told me Nora had been awarded by her art teacher! They livestream the school assembly on Facebook - ha! I was so proud of Nora - we try so hard to instill being a kind and loving person - so it seems it’s working 💗


Sunday, March 3, 2019

Bucket Filler

Nora was on Cloud 9 Friday after school - she was recognized as a Bucket Filler by her teacher! 

Each week students have the possibility of being recognized as a Bucket Filler. Bucket Fillers are students who say or do nice things to make others feel good. When these random acts of kindness occur, we call them Bucket Fillers. Students at Seipelt fill buckets all day, everyday, but some students go above and beyond and this recognition system allows each of these students to meet with me individually to share what they did and how it filled a bucket!”

So proud of my girl. Every morning when I drop her off I don’t say “Have a good day!” Instead, I tell her “Have a happy day! You are kind and thoughtful.” I chose to plant that belief in her head and she’s fulfilling it herself 💗

Nora’s photo with the Principal, Ms. Lewis, in this week’s school newsletter!

Friday, March 1, 2019

Community Rises Up

I’m sure many have seen this story circulating. It makes me cry with amazement that this community would put such energy into making this little girl feel included. What if ALL communities made this effort for ALL abilities? 

Neighborhood Learns ASL for Deaf 2-Year Old